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Pictured her is my “lovely” wifes “lovely” mother. I recently found these emails ( in their entirety) after a change by comcast.

This email and my “lovely” mother in laws reply, have brought me both relief and pain.

Relief because I forgot about how much willingness I have shown through this horrible horrible game by my “lovely” wife from the beginning.

Pain because I never stood a chance therefore neither did my kids. Also, this really reiterated all the lies, cheating, and stealing that I have been in denial of over the last 18 years of my life.

SETTING THE STAGE

Before I took a job w/ TNA wrestling, I had spent a good amount of time and energy building a relationship with IWA Puerto Rico and an “angel” investor.

There was a “light at the end of the tunnel” on this “deal” and there was still something tangible to work with in P.R. w IWA.

The “lovely: woman pictured above, decided that she would buy 80 acres in Centerville Tn and give each of her 3 daughters 20 of them.

The reason I mention this is this was part of the “rationale” that my “lovely” wife used to get me to take the “bird in the hand” (that she perceived anyway) at TNA.

Now that I remember btw, Jeff had “led me to believe” that we would end up doing some TNA/IWA business in addition to my other TNA duties.

Now, “lovelys” first pitch was;

“I’ll feel more secure if u take a job at TNA so I can finish school. Then when I’m finished, you can take some time off to spend with the kids, because you’ve worked so hard to support this family, and I’ll support us for a year or so. Then you can go back to what you were working on in P.R.”

I never could explain to her how “time sensitive” the venture was.

I knew that I would eventually end up where I did with TNA because I had seen the signs. I told “lovely” that I just didn’t think working there would end good.

Then “lovely” and her mother decided that “hey…we can sell the home in Chicago and custom build in Tn. and not have a mortgage payment?”

That made sense as I really did love that “piece of land” and truth be known, I HATE CHICAGO!!!.

Either way, this seemed smart to me now and part of the pitch was “even if things don’t work out at TNA you and my step father can build on the homes for that year while I am a nurse and I’ll support us and then you can go back to blah blah blah”.

When I went to TNA, I worked too fucking hard man! Most of it was because I didn’t want to face all the disappointment with what I was promised there and what I got.

I finally decided that “I was in and with the miracles I was performing, there’s no way I wouldn’t make what I was promised”.

Again, I came home for 4 days for the first time in 7 weeks and I got the “phone call” from Steve Small that I was fired while “lovely” was about 8 feet away studying and her first words were;

“WHAT?? YOU WERE FIRED?? YOU FAILED AGAIN!!! WHAT AM I GOING TO DO NOW??? HOW WILL I FINISH SCHOOL”????

Nice eh? I will say that “my Spidey sense” was tingling in regard to my “lovely” wifes reaction but, all I said was:

“Wow! That was pretty shitty. Look this is the first time I’ve been fired in my life. Why don’t you come back in about 3 days with that? Even the Japanese allow 3 days mourning”.

And I left the room.

Ok, “lovely” got a “wild hair up her ass” a few months later about me going to the island to try and recapture what I had a year or so earlier.

I tried to explain how hard it would be now that I did not have and investor nor partner which she seemed oblivious to.

She was extremely pushy about this and animate that I was going and she bought the first cheapest ticket she could find and it just so happened to fall during the 2008 summer Olympics.

As much as I tried to explain that the IWA TV was on the NBC affiliate in P.R. and that I would have nothing to promote for 3 weeks, she would not “back down” and change the ticket.

I tried to explain many times and she just would hear none of it. I had even said “why the “F” are you trying to get rid of me”?

It was joked off.

Now I had some severance pay left from TNA and unemployment and “lovely” had a one day a week job at Condell hospital. On paper, if “lovely” picked up another day at work, ends would have totally met.

SIDENOTE:

There still is $800 unaccounted for from this time span and “lovely” never picked up her second day either.

My “lovely” wife called me in P.R. saying that she didn’t have enough money for the week. I was at the post office in San Juan when she called sending her $250 (which wasn’t figured in nor scheduled) as she tried to “over act” the broke, single, mother, student and 3 girls against the world” shit, as I said;

“Stop projecting this shit on me! I’m doing my best here and why do you not have enough money”?

She became defensive and bellowed “are you accusing me of living extravagantly”?

And I said “I wasn’t but, I am now”.

And she pulled the “water works” out of her ass and this time it didn’t affect me like it used to so I retorted:

“Please stop it! This shit is fucking torturous!! I am sending $250 now priority and it will be there in 3 days. Please go to my other business account where you will find enough money to get through until your paycheck comes and my $250.
Also, you have a Target card? So there you have more then enough to tide you through the next couple of days”.

You see “lovely’s” spiritual ad visor is this woman:

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Susan Ayres. More on her soon. You’ll just love her involvement in the split of my family.

And these two LOVE to have something to “dramatize” about when it comes to men, even though both had been married to “good guys” for most of their adult lives?

Thus making “lovely’s” reaction “fuel for the fire” with Susan and Patrieces “issues” with their fathers and ex husband.

I said to “lovely” “Problem solved”?? “Please now call Susan and tell her the drama was for naught”.

Another SIDENOTE:

“Lovely” called the next day and told me the she and Susan decided that I was inappropriate and my calling it “drama” was my ploy to make patriece feel “less than”??

Here is an email from me to my mother in law Linda Barnat and now that the “scene is set” it will make sense to you and should be self explanatory:

10/7/08

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Linda,
me calling you today wasn’t a game. Theres no communication here and its very obvious
that I’m not welcome here. The last phone conversation I had with Patriece, she was
very angry about me leaving P.R. and coming home.

Thats fine! But this is my home too as I have paid for at least 90% of it. Patriece
was very angry and I was very surprised! It was said that she was going to “lie” and
call the police and say I threatended her. And I said “Patriece, I am coming home and
you better get your shit together…” she cut me off and started screaming “OR WHAT
OR WHAT!!” I said “If you would’ve let me finish, I was going to say, for our kids
sake”.

I am very concerned about this kind of threat and I’m hoping that her and I are
beyond things like that. Those are not cool threats and I need a place to stay and
this is my home.

Also, our kids SHOULD NOT have so much responsibility with Patrieces schedule and
me being out of the country.

I’m sure that this is the end of our marriage and thats fine with me! But, I see NO
reason whatsoever why we cant just be civil with eachother for the time being with all
the years we have been sober and for the sake of our kids!

Just because the home is in her name (my idea by the way) doesnt mean I dont have rights. I dont want to defend my rights but, MY KIDS NEED ME and I NO WHERE TO GO and
I wont live like that at 27 years of sobriety. And I wont just walk away from my home
because I wont pay the rest of Patrieces way thru school.

I suggested she and I get someone between us that we can communicate thru to figure
out bills etc. until her anger passes.

I am not angry! And I’m willing to live under the same roof and not be “together” for my
kids sake. People do it! We have the tools to work thru it! and these kids have had
enough!

Randi:

I don’t know what to say to you. I prayed while you were away that you would come home
and come to your senses. I pray for you both sincerely every night still.

Her first line, my senses? It was her daughter, my “lovely” wifes idea for me to go. What this ended up being was an attempt for my wife to claim I had abandoned the family.

She did get food stamps under this me being gone for 16 weeks (legal abandonment) which I’m sure was the rationale for her not working that extra day.

Also, if she got this abandonment charge against me, I would have no rights to the kids or anything. And I had no idea this was going on.

I will just tell you honestly what I see.

You came home and for that I am grateful, but still you only appear to be thinking about
yourself.

Myself? WTF??

Somehow, I don’t get the sense that you think you have any responsibility for
the result. And I don’t blame Patriece for being angry. She has been working very hard
to try to hold your home together for the children. She’s supported you and your family
in every way she can. Now she’s working, going to school to find steady employment, and
taking care of the girls (making sure they stay in their community and participate in
the activities they like with their friends) and all you can do is worry about where you
stay and how you are being mistreated? Feelings are not facts and actions speak louder
than words.

Now at the time, this goofy hag, hadn’t see any of us for a year? Who goes off like this?

Instead of trying to bully Patriece into getting your own way, why don’t you
try focusing on what you can change to make the situation better. 27 years of sobriety
will not stand for much if don’t have the courage to continually look at yourself and
change the things you can.

God damn her! I came home for my kids! I had it made in P.R. as I love the island especially the WOMEN there!! I had it made man!!
And I came home walking on fucking egg shells even sleeping in the baby’s bed which was a foot too short.

You know, many people work at jobs they don’t choose because the most important thing is
keeping there family’s together. I will tell you honestly what I see is that you aren’t
angry (which perhaps you should be since its a normal emotion and somethimes a good
motivator) because for the last 4 months you haven’t had to deal with the bills, the
children, or the house.

The bills, the kids, and the house?? I was gone 9 weeks and change and “lovely” was living off my money primarily as she was maybe clearing $100 per week with the exception of some extra hours during a break from school or whatever. And NO you DIPSHIT!! Believe me no one wants me angry here especially me.

You have been away. And Patriece is fearful and has probably
been mean, but I try to encourage her because she is working so hard to try to hold
things together and I try to let her know that God is bigger than her problems. There
are always options.

Oh God! Someone tell me please… where does it say that “God and anger” go together???

The reason I am helping either of you to keep that house together is because my Grand
children need a roof over their heads and as little disruption in their lives as
possible so they have their childhood. And also, in my opinion, their helping to take
care of the house and be responsible is not unhealthy for them. Look what our
grandparents had to do. It is a reality of life.

Uh yeah! This is the same woman who my wife lent $6000 to a few years earlier, when they both told me it was only $2000 that would be replenished within 3 weeks and it took only 3 years for her to pay back?

My question is, what are you doing to make sure the bills are kept to a miniumum so you
can survive and what are you contributing to your family’s welfare. I know you love
them. But love is not just a feeling.

This is the same woman who always picked a guy over her children and does to this day! She admits it, leaves him, and then always goes back, and flares up at all three of her adult children after and blames them??

It is very painful to me that you cannot seem to try something different. My advice is
stop trying to control everyone else and step up to the plate. And, stop with this “he
said, she said” stone throwing crap. You are not in high school anymore. You are suppose
to be a father providing for his family and secondly a husband supporting his wife.

Control everyone??? High School?? This “sick ass” woman came to the house I bought for her SHIT HEADED daughter in 1997 and told my “Lovely” wife “Stay there!! I will take the tour of the house myself!” Then she stood at the top of the stairs with a crazed look and said… “You dont deserve a house like this! I do!! I have worked harder and longer then the two of you have”!!

And look at what she writes here??

I can only pray that you both truly open your minds to finding a positive solution that
isn’t one person’s answer, but ask God to help you both for whatever his answer is and
be willing to listen. Truly willing to listen. I believe God wants what is best for all.

And I have to close with the fact that I fucking hate stupid assholes like this that do SOOOOO much damage and then use the Lord as their guise!!

Its like the Islamics thinking that their God wants them to blow us up.

I do love and care for all of you always.

Hahaha! I haven’t heard from the “skrank” since. She loves me?

don west

This is funny! All it took was one person to share their Shop TNA experience and Adam Martin (from Wrestleview) to have balls enough to post it and show his brilliant “passive aggressive” side and I have a feeling we’ll be seeing a “snow ball effect” soon.
Also, don’t forget, that WWE digital media revenue is the 3rd largest stream they have. This is fact and not just the opinion of a washed out “never was”.

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In response to a report from Sunday regarding Wrestleview reader Matthew Wilkerson having some issues with ShopTNA, we’ve received some more responses from readers regarding the TNA merchandise website.

Chad Harris sent this in:

To anybody at WrestleView:

Please warn your readers about the ShopTNA website. Very unprofessional and bush league plus a ripoff.

This is in regard to what another reader sent in a few days ago concerning ShopTNA. I too have had problems with TNA over merchandise. I ordered some items back in early January and it took to almost the middle of February before I got my order but of course it wasn’t what I had ordered. A Tshirt was missing and a few more things but of course, my credit card was charged the total price. I have called repeatedly to TNA only to get an answering machine too so finally, I think I’ve given up. I still don’t have my Tshirt that I ordered…and my credit card bill is still due and I can’t get anybody in TNA to answer a phone. I got the front desk and some guy who wouldn’t give me his name tried ringing the merchandise department but nobody answered. I’ve tried emailing them but apparently, they are too busy screwing up other people’s orders to worry about mine or respond to my emails.

What is up with this bunch of people? I will never again order anything from them. I can see making mistakes but once mistakes are made, man up and correct them. If what I read is true, TNA is using regular office staff in the shipping department to fill orders and if that’s the way they’re doing business, then I am done ordering any more merchandise from TNA. I can take or leave Impact because I haven’t spent any money watching it but once money comes out of my pocket, I want service and what I’ve ordered. If anybody is thinking about ordering anything from ShopTNA, be warned. You might get what you order and you might not. TNA, in my opinion, is very unprofessional in dealing with the public. No more.

Chad Harris
Very disgruntled ex TNA merchandise buyer
Alexandria, LA

Jay sent this in:

In response to your posted email regarding ShopTNA; I too have had a similar experience as of late with ShopTNA. I ordered upwards of $80 worth of merchandise on 2/22. I chose the free shipping option (still was charged $3.25 handling). My credit card was charged on 2/27, then I received an email on 3/02 stating that my order was “being packed.” It is now 3/08, and I have no product and the status of my order is still “being packed.” It took less time for the Von Trapp family to pack for seven children when they disappeared into Switzerland. I have tried to leave a voice mail only to get the same response as your other email, which was a full mailbox voicemail message. It sure didn’t seem to help when Don West got “promoted” to be in charge of merchandising full time. If TNA doesn’t rectify this situation soon, they will be losing me as a customer.

William Hatfield sent this in:

As a recourse, if he (the original reader Matthew) calls his bank and places a chargeback against the item, the bank will actually investigate the claim. It’s illegal for TNA to advertise items that they can’t actually sell. On a side note, any dealings I’ve ever had with TNA have ended up with TNA coming across as totally inept.

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